This is a letter to my sister Marissa who is going on her first mission trip to Costa Rica in a few days. As her older brother, it behooves me to give her some need-to-know advice before she takes this next step in her faith walk. Maybe, this information is relevant to you, as well.
 
First mission trip (pic taken in Dominican Republic)Here are some things you should know before your first mission trip:
 
1) Be open to God's Spirit. You will be challenged to step out in your faith, take risks, and even look stupid. If you're not doing these things, you're probably not being obedient.
 
2) Show obvious respect for other cultures. Show interest in what's going on in their country. Ask questions about their native music, customs, history, and even politics. Many other cultures (although not all) have a deep respect for America, but be careful to not communicate that your culture is somehow superior to theirs. It will greatly honor them if you do your best to show interest in their way of life.
 
3) Attempt to speak the language. Even if it is an awful attempt, they will not look down on you. This is a common American misconception. We believe that if we cannot do something well that we shouldn't do it at all. In most areas of the world, trying to speak their language (especially in the country where it is spoken) is a great honor. Most people will be patient with you, but if the adults get worn out from coaching you, ask for help from children.
 
4) Try new things. This means not just eating the food that is given you, but also stepping out of your personal comfort zone. Eat exotic fruits, try some pastries or bread that is typical of that area. Drink something other than Coke. Obviously, this goes beyond food and drink, though. You won't like everything, but it's important to try new things, because you may find something that you really like (for instance, I fell in love with mangos in Costa Rica). Learn the local dance or song, if they have one. Buy a souvenir or piece of typical clothing (not just a tourist T-shirt). Do what the locals do -- hang out in a park, take a siesta, etc.

5) Don't go back to normal. When you return from your trip, you may feel "different." Things that used to be important to you may now seem silly or trivial. You may find yourself getting annoyed with your friends or aspects of your culture. Be patient, but remember that this was part of why you went on this trip -- to change. Embrace the changes God has made in your life, and honor them. Also, read my article "We Were Meant to Be Wrecked" when you're feeling out of place or frustrated.